NNPP chieftain counsels newlyweds on love, prayer, and discipline at Lagos wedding
By Ibrahim Kegbegbe
Lagos, Nigeria – The wedding ceremony of Adebimpe Abigail Ojo and Israel Adeola Alabi drew dignitaries and well-wishers to La’occassionz Event Place, Abule-Egba, Lagos State, on August 29 and 30, 2025. The two-day celebration began with a colourful traditional wedding and climaxed with a white wedding, where Ambassador Olufemi Ajadi Oguntoyinbo, Southwest chieftain of the New Nigeria People’s Party (NNPP) and CEO of Bullion Records, served as chairman of the occasion.
Delivering his marital advice to the couple, Ajadi emphasised that love must be the foundation of every marriage, describing it as the first of seven principles needed for a flourishing home.
“Love is an affection that comes after the two couples truly understand each other,” he said. “The husband must love his wife because love teaches responsibility, makes prayer a part of the home, and helps couples forgive and care for each other.”
Ajadi explained that love also inspires respect and tolerance within the home.
“A home without prayer is not a godly home,” he added. “Love leads to prayer, forgiveness, care, and accommodation. It makes each partner respect the other, and when there is respect at home, outsiders will also respect the marriage.”
The NNPP stalwart, known for his philanthropic and political engagements, also gave practical advice, urging the bride to look after her husband’s well-being.
“The wife should feed her husband very well because food is essential. Beyond that, both should be cheerful with one another and satisfy each other sexually. Love makes this possible,” Ajadi said.
Beyond love, he outlined six other principles for a successful marriage:
Commitment – Expressing deep dedication and choosing one’s partner daily, even through life’s challenges.
Submissiveness – Rooted in biblical teaching, but also in mutual respect, trust, and sacrificial love.
Discipline – Practising self-control, active listening, and consistent effort to nurture the relationship.
Satisfaction – Deriving joy, pleasure, and fulfilment from one’s spouse and the union as a whole.
Understanding – Comprehending each other’s perspectives, needs, and emotions with empathy.
Encouragement – Offering support and affirming belief in one another through life’s challenges.
Ajadi urged the couple to build their home on mutual respect, constant prayers, and resilience against third-party interference.
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Expressing his appreciation, the father of the groom, Prince CSP Olusoji S. Alabi (Rtd.), said he was deeply grateful for the presence of the guests who graced the wedding.
He particularly acknowledged Ajadi’s role, saying:
“I don’t know how to thank you enough for your presence, your sermon, and your kind financial gestures. I pray that God Almighty will replenish your resources, enlarge your coast, and keep you and your family under His divine protection. I am eternally grateful.”
The occasion also witnessed the presence of prominent NNPP leaders and supporters who accompanied Ajadi. Among them were Chief Ademola Otolowo, UK-based music promotion executive and CEO of 100% Entertainment; Hon. Kilamuwaye Badmus, NNPP Southwest PRO; Hon. Adenaya Fatai (Modawoni), Ogun State assistant financial secretary; and Hon. Abiola Sanusi, Ogun State auditor.
Others included Hon. Akingbala Semiu, Ogun Central senatorial chairman; Hon. Kehinde Teluwo, 2023 Ogun Central senatorial candidate; Hon. Mrs. Bagbansoro Precious, Ogun State woman leader; Comrade Olaoluwa Akinsola Akinwande, Ogun Central senatorial youth leader; and Hon. Mrs. Akinwunmi Bolupe, woman leader, NNPP Abeokuta South, alongside Mr. Awoeyo Olugbenga and Mr. Jamiu Muibi.
The colourful event was marked by cheers, music, and dancing, and Ajadi’s message of love, prayer, and discipline resonated deeply with the couple and the audience.
